Commissioning : Human Condition #2
Last week we talked about our
human condition, specifically we talked about how we
were created to have an intimate friendship with God but
sin has broken that relationship. Sin also creates a
separation from God which is eternal unless we find a
solution. We discovered the solution is not an idea or a
formula, it is a person, Jesus Christ.
Today we want to talk about how sin’s impact effects
God’s plan for our lives. In a sense we are going to
answer the question, "If God knew that sin was going to
enter into His creation then why did He bother to create
us—why are we here?" To answer that question, we are
going back on the highway of human condition this week.
Like last time, we will take some exit ramps from time
to time to take a closer look at a few key points.
One of the central questions that comes up in
conversations about this topic is this: "If God is all
powerful and loving, how could he permit sin, suffering,
or even eternal torment in hell to exist?" Charles
Templeton asked that question. He was once a preacher in
the 1940’s. He was a ministry partner of Billy Graham.
But after a period of time, Charles Templeton decided he
could not believe in God anymore. And so he became a
self-professing atheist and wrote books about why he
could not believe in a loving God. I have a
recently-made recording of Charles Templeton explaining
why he struggles to believe in a loving God.
(Play 2 minute recording of atheist author describing
a baby who died of starvation and his mother in
Africa)
How do we explain this woman’s situation, or for that
matter, situations that we find ourselves in that are
painful and unfair? What about Columbine High School and
all those students and teachers who were senselessly and
innocently killed? What about the relative who
contracted cancer and painfully wasted away for months?
Some of your non-Christian friends might say: "If Jesus
is the answer to my problems and God is so loving that
He wants me to have a fulfilled life like they had in
the garden of Eden, then why do so many people suffer?
Or for that matter, why do I suffer? Why do I have a
stressful job, why is my marriage falling apart, why did
someone I love get a terrible disease? How did we get to
this point? Where is God in all of this? Is He loving or
not? Is He able to help us or not? What role do people
play in all of this and what role is God playing? Good
questions. We are going to explore these questions
today.
First of all, let’s pull off the highway for a
moment. One of our problems today is we view pain and
suffering on a relative scale. Let’s test this. If the
following painful situation stirs sympathy in you give
me a thumbs up, if it stirs little sympathy give me a
thumbs down:
- Terminal cancer
- Broken leg while skiing on vacation
- Hang nail
- Influenza (flu)
- Starvation
- Hemorrhoids
- AIDS
- Migraine headache
You see the problem here? Sometimes people judge God
on whether He is loving for not for allowing us to go
through this suffering and pain based on their relative
pain and suffering scale. The fact is the Bible tells we
will never receive more than we can handle. In fact I
think God probably holds back far more pain and
suffering than we should receive based on our
sinfulness. I like the way Christian songwriter Rich
Mullins once said it. He said some people say it is
unfair when an 18-year-old gets killed in a car accident
with a drunk driver at fault. But I am shocked and
amazed that God is so loving and merciful that He allows
us to live as long as 18 years considering how bad we
are! Back on the highway.
If you remember last week’s teaching you know the
Bible defines sin is anything that denies the truth, or
not doing the right thing, or denies our true identity.
We found out from our memory verse ( Romans 6:23) the penalty for our sin is
death—eternal death. Of course we discovered the
solution to our eternal death penalty problem is Jesus
and His substitute death on our behalf. So, one of the
useful results of pain and suffering is that it helps us
recognize our badness or our sinfulness. That
recognition is one of the key ingredients that drives
many to saving relationship with Jesus. (It’s exactly
what Nancy was talking about before communion when she
mention the word repentance.) And so as a non-Christian,
suffering and pain can make us aware of our desperate
need for Jesus. And in fact many people’s testimonies
involve a trying or difficult event that "woke them up"
and made them realize their need for a Savior.
But what we also need to understand is that while sin
can be dealt with and forgiven from an eternal
standpoint, we still deal with the consequences of our
own sin while we are living here on earth. If I commit a
sin that sends me to prison and there receive the
forgiveness a relationship with Jesus offers, that fact
probably won’t change my prison sentence or my speeding
ticket or my tax penalty. I still deal with the
consequences of my sin in this life. No, life is not a
curse, it was meant to bring Glory to God and to fulfill
us. The very thing God created us to be is fulfilled.
But the world’s fallen nature will now create a struggle
for everyone.
Perhaps the verse that stands out to me as describing
that struggle most clearly is Galations 5:17, "17The old
sinful nature loves to do evil, which is just opposite
from what the Holy Spirit wants. And the Spirit gives us
desires that are opposite from what the sinful nature
desires. These two forces are constantly fighting each
other, and your choices are never free from this
conflict." While on earth, you are never free from the
conflict. Another revealing verse is Genesis 3:19 "19 All your
life you will sweat to produce food, until your dying
day." Keep in mind that work or vocation is not the
curse. Once again vocation was given by God to people
before sin came into the world. It’s just that sin has
so affected creation that nothing is quite as reliable
as it was in the garden of Eden. Dry spells will come
sometimes in countries with evil and uncompassionate
governments creating famine, starvation, and death.
Equipment, utensils, and tools break, rust, and
wear-out. Our bodies will develop injuries that make it
painful to work physically.
All these factors lead to suffering, but God in His
wisdom has created a plan to use even our painful wrong
decisions as opportunities for us to grow. So, how does
God use suffering for our growth?
For instance pain and suffering can actually unite
God’s family. The church has been called Christ’s body
and as you know when one part of your body hurts it can
affect your whole body. An infected toenail or planter
wart announces to me that my foot is important and needs
attention. If you step on my sore toe, I may yell, ‘Hey,
that’s me!’ My whole body feels the pain. People with
illness like leprosy which destroys sensation in certain
body parts wind up loosing appendages all the time
because they can’t tell when they are being hurt. Pain
is the very mechanism that forces me to stop what I’m
doing and pay attention to the hurting member.
In the same way, we members of Christ’s body (His
church) should learn to attend to the pains of the rest
of the body. In so doing we become a sort of "Jesus with
skin on" and as a result we individually and
collectively become more like Him.
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Corinthians 1:4-6 "4He comforts
us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others.
When others are troubled, we will be able to give them
the same comfort God has given us. 5 You can
be sure that the more we suffer for Christ, the more God
will shower us with his comfort through Christ.
6So when we are weighed down with troubles,
it is for your benefit and salvation! For when God
comforts us, it is so that we, in turn, can be an
encouragement to you." The experience of our sufferings
gives us the opportunity to comfort others with God’s
comfort He has given to us. And therefore we become more
like Him which is our goal as according to Ephesians 4:15.
I want to take one final exit ramp at this point. One
of your God-ordained roles in life is to help others who
are experiencing pain and suffering. But how do you do
that? I am no expert, but at times we tend to try and
help people by not necessarily being Christ-like, but by
replacing God in His role. What I mean is we tend to
share our view of why this or that happened and
sometimes we develop all these elaborate plans for how
we are going to fix all of this. For instance, say your
spouse comes home and has had a bad day because of
something someone has done to him or her. My tendency is
to say, well obviously this other person is in the
wrong. We will fix this, you tell them this and that and
if they don’t do it then they will have to answer to me.
Probably a better approach to help someone who is
struggling or suffering would be to:
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Allow people to share their pain stories with you
and say to them thank you for sharing your pain with
me or with us if you are in a small group setting.
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And then most times, I will say it again, most
times it is best NOT to give advice or try to explain
why God would allow this or that situation to happen.
Simply say, ‘I grieve with you and so does God. Can I
pray with you to the God of comfort to help us right
now?’
And besides, when you look at some people’s situation,
answers don’t come easily. Why does God allow a
world of unfaithful people, sick children, no money, and
no hope? We want to say, "God come down here and look
at this and do something about it." Come to think of
it, God did come. He came to earth in human flesh, and
saw and felt for himself what this world is like, particularly
when people are far from God. The fact that Jesus
came and felt and suffered and died does not instantly
remove pain from our lives. But it does show that
God did not sit idly by and watch us suffer in isolation.
How did He respond to pain and suffering? When
He met a person in pain, He was deeply moved with compassion.
Not once did He say, "Endure your hunger! Swallow
your grief." When Jesus’ friend Lazarus died, he cried.
He healed nearly every diseased person He came across.
He routinely interrupted funerals to raise people
back to life. He broke deeply rooted customs to set
things right, because of Jesus knows our suffering. H
Hebrews 4:14-16 says,
"14That is why we have a great High Priest
who has gone to heaven, Jesus the Son of God. Let us
cling to him and never stop trusting him.
15This High Priest of ours understands our
weaknesses, for he faced all of the same temptations we
do, yet he did not sin. 16So let us come
boldly to the throne of our gracious God. There we will
receive his mercy, and we will find grace to help us
when we need it." Back on the highway…
Of course, let’s be honest. When it comes right down
to it, there is some pain and suffering that just
doesn’t make sense. I think that is to be expected
because ultimately our world’s sin is irrational. It
doesn’t make sense. It really did not make sense for
Satan to rebel against God in the expectation of being
able to exalt himself above God. Nor did it make sense
for Adam and Eve to think that there could be any gain
in disobeying the words of their Creator. Let’s not make
temptation and sin glamorous like Hollywood does,
committing sin is really equivalent to becoming
temporarily insane. It’s denying God’s plan, His best
for us. That insanity creates unexplainable pain and
suffering in our lives. Just ask the Apostle Paul from
Romans 7 when he said, "…I really want
to do what is right, but I don’t do it. Instead, I do
the very thing I hate. 16I know perfectly
well that what I am doing is wrong, and my bad
conscience shows that I agree that the law is good…No
matter which way I turn, I can’t make myself do right. I
want to, but I can’t…Thank God! The answer is in Jesus
Christ our Lord."
That’s where the final piece to the suffering puzzle
gets filled in when you look at the end of the story. 1 Peter 5:9-11 "Remember that your
Christian brothers and sisters all over the world are
going through the same kind of suffering you are.
10In his kindness God called you to his
eternal glory by means of Jesus Christ. After you have
suffered a little while, he will restore, support, and
strengthen you, and he will place you on a firm
foundation. 11All power is his forever and
ever. Amen."
The piece to the suffering puzzle that will make the
picture complete is eternity with God in heaven. It has
been suggested that eternity in heaven will make a
life-time of torture in a Nazi concentration camp seem
like an insignificant bump in the road!
We are coming to the end of the road as far as the
Highway of Human condition goes. And at the end of the
road stands Jesus, just like He was standing at the
beginning of the road and like He was all along the
road. Even if you have turned away from Him and have
chosen to sin His chief desire is to have an active love
relationship with you. Don’t make this mistake. God is
not like your High School principal, dressed in a gray
suit, with those suspicious, stern-looking eyes that
seem to say, "What are you up to?" I mean the guy can
never remember your name, but he is all the time
standing in the office, next to the file cabinet,
leafing through your files and wondering, "Have you done
anything wrong lately? Maybe I ought lower the boom,
punish you just to make sure that you stay out of
trouble." That's how a lot of people view God. But the
Bible says you've got the wrong picture.
Don't we approach God with that same kind of
suspicion. "Sure, Lord, I know You want to help me, and
work in my life. But I don't know if I can trust You.
I'm afraid You're going to be kind of rough in the way
you handle me and you're going to make this painful for
me. So, I not so sure that I want to get involved.
God is not like that at all. He is a God of grace,
mercy, and peace. These words describe His attitude as
well as His actions:
e.g. He is the doctor who cuts to the chase and tells
you the truth. "You have leukemia He gets on the table
next to you and donates His own blood and bone marrow to
help you beat that terrible disease.
e.g. He is the judge that pronounces you guilty and
gives you a stiff fine, but then He cashes in His own
401(k) so He can pay the fine for you and then He stands
by your family over the next 18 months, paying all the
bills while you work at a new job trying to get back on
your own feet.
e.g. He is the gas station attendant, who sadly
shakes his head when you ask " Am I close to the place I
want to go?" And he very honestly tells you, "Buddy, you
are way off course, on the wrong side of town, you are
many, many, miles from where you ought to be." But then
he wipes his hands, sits the rag down, crawls into his
own pickup and begins to lead you through that maze of
city streets, in the pouring rain and he takes you all
the way to your destination.
That's the kind of God we have-He doesn't ignore the
problem. He never hides from
Trouble. No matter how big the mess is that we have
gotten ourselves into, He rolls up sleeves and says,
"Here let Me help." And with eagerness and kindness He
carefully puts us back on the right track. And He is
willing again and again and again-as often as we need
the help.
Romans 5:6-8: "6When we
were utterly helpless, Christ came at just the right
time and died for us sinners. 7Now, no one is
likely to die for a good person, though someone might be
willing to die for a person who is especially good.
8But God showed his great love for us by
sending Christ to die for us while we were still
sinners."
How do you establish and maintain a relationship with
a God like that? For the next couple of weeks we will be
talking about
that…. |